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Find which of these three options is best suited for you. Try not to switch from one to another within one meditation sitting. Instead, see how well a particular technique serves you during a 15 to 20 minute meditation sitting.

Step 3: During your meditation sitting, your mind will continue to be active. Thoughts of all kinds will come and go. This is nothing to be concerned about. When you become aware of your thoughts, or any other distraction like a car blowing its horn, a pet walking through the room, or something as simple as an itchy nose, gently shift your awareness back to meditation by using the technique you’ve selected: following your breath, using a word for meditation, or focusing your gaze on a particular object. Many teachers recommend that as you make this shift of focus, simply label the thing you’re thinking about or the distraction as “a thought.” Whatever ran through your mind, it’s really just another thought – nothing too important. Let it go for now. If it’s important, it will still be there when you’re done with your time of meditation.

Step 4: When you’ve completed your appointed time of meditation, allow yourself to think and feel a sense of gratitude for the time spent in quiet. This may include a prayer or familiar saying. Some Christians find it helpful to slowly recite the Lord’s prayer; some people in 12-step groups recite the Serenity Prayer; others simply say “thank you for this time.” Stretch a bit and, as you are ready, return to your other activities.

Common Challenges in Meditation

There are some very common challenges people experience when incorporating a meditation practice in one’s life. To be honest, they don’t necessarily go away over time. Instead, with regular meditation, one generally becomes used to moving through these challenges. Among the most common difficulties are:

1. The ability to be quiet and in silence for a period of time. We live in a culture that values multi-tasking and lots of activity. There’s also lots of noise around us each day. Silent meditation causes one to break the busy patterns common of daily life. It’s a difficult pattern to break. If you find that sitting for 15 minutes makes you want to jump up and run away because it’s too difficult to be still, don’t get all caught up in feeling like you’re doing something wrong. Instead, reduce the time in meditation to what’s comfortable. Perhaps five or ten minutes is a good time for you. This isn’t a contest. Quality is more important than quantity.

2. The thoughts just keep coming. Many people find themselves remembering things they need to do, like planning the evening meal or remembering odd jobs they’ve put off for months. Sometimes memories of past conversations come to mind or concerns about certain responsibilities. All that is very normal. Remember that your brain doesn’t stop functioning in meditation. The solution is simple: no matter what it is, label it: “I’m thinking” or “that’s a thought.” Then use your technique to shift your awareness back to the silence.

3. The variety of emotions can be confusing. Some people begin a practice of meditation and find that it feels great: relaxing, peaceful, or renewing. Some people find it difficult to be still so that the experience makes them a bit anxious. Some find that they remember difficult times in life. Some people find that nothing much is happening at all. Whatever emotional experience you may encounter, trust that it’s part of your individual process. Rather than focusing on the emotion, remember that your awareness should be fixed on the meditation process. That’s done by using one of the three techniques described in step 2. View your emotional experience as just another thought. Of course, if something that’s difficult for you persists, it’s a good idea to speak to someone with more experience in meditation.

Some who read this will be experienced in meditation. If you are, I want to welcome you to make comments about your experience or suggest books or other resources that have been helpful to you. That will be a great help to others reading this site.

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