This post covers beginners mediation techniques that I have used of the past 2 years to transform the way I interact with the world. This is seriously one of the best things I have ever done.
If you find a way to add mediation into your life, you will dominate, kick more ass, and live a much better existence.
It is also one of the easiest ways to prime your brain for success.
I have spent most of my adult life completely stuck in my own head.
I was unable to articulate and speak clearly because there was so much internal chatter going on. When someone would ask me a question, I would would think of 90 possible answers and I was unable to choose the correct one, because there was so much going on in my head. I would get nervous and completely seize up and it was pretty much game over at that point.
My brain and mind did not work very well. After a while, I just got really sick of dealing with the stress. I knew I could make changes, but I did not know where to start.
I had been following Dave Asprey on the website. Dave had provided me with a ton of really helpful information that had made an amazing impact on my physical health. My blood work looked better than ever and I was in the best physical shape of my life. However, with so much focus on my body, I had neglected my mind and my brain.
Dave highly recommended using a device called the EmWave2. He talked about Alpha brain waves, lowering anxiety and reducing your response to stress. I remember thinking, “I don’t have any stress in my life”, therefore I don’t need it.
Once again, I was completely wrong.
I am 2 years into my mediation experiment and the effects have been nothing short of profound. For the first time in my life I feel awake.
I still remember the first time I actually sat down and began to try and focus my wandering mind through meditation. I had just purchased the EmWave2 biofeedback device from the Institute. I did my breathing exercises for about 10 minutes and felt completely different. I began to smile and a weird satisfaction overcame me. I had turned off the mind chatter, the inner voice was gone.
It was a paradigm shifting experience.
The negative self talk was completely gone. The chatter turned off. I was alive again.
I walked out to the local mall and strolled down the aisles of stores. People were looking at me. I thought I was imagining it, but I could feel the stare of dozens of people. I walked into a store to pick up a few tickets for a baseball game. When I walked in, there were two middle aged ladies deeply engaged in a conversation. When I walked in they both immediately stopped, looked at me and smiled. They both stopped mid sentence, eyes fixed on me.
I looked them both in the eye, un-reactive and calm. No mind chatter and completely present.
I was awake again.
They both stared at me in a way no one else had ever before. There was a silence that seemed to last hours before they were able to speak. Whatever was going on… I felt it and so did they.
I had no idea, what to think about the experience.
Over the next couple of months I experimented. I tried many other forms of meditation; HoloSync, Binural Beats, LifeFlow, Zen, guided, deep breathing, yoga etc. Everything I tried expanded and improved my mediation practice.
The concepts and lessons learned from each method of meditation improved all other aspects of my life.
Many of my friends have asked me ” How do I even start?”
Well, what follows is my quick start guide.
Step 1: Understand why you are doing it and what you want to get out of it
Step 2: Start Easy
Step 3: Experiment
Using this information, you can consciously put yourself in a relaxed awareness state.
Here is an Alan Watts guided meditation which is pretty straightforward: